{"id":13372,"date":"2024-05-11T12:41:17","date_gmt":"2024-05-11T12:41:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/?p=13372"},"modified":"2024-05-11T12:41:17","modified_gmt":"2024-05-11T12:41:17","slug":"the-idea-of-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/the-idea-of-you\/","title":{"rendered":"The Idea of You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(by Robinne Lee)<\/p>\n<p>I have, yet again, finished last month&#8217;s romance book club read a little late&#8212;thanks to the movie adaptation of this one, I had to wait a while for my hold to come in at the library. The plot: a divorced mom takes her daughter (who is twelve when the book opens) and two friends to Vegas to see a boy-band that the kids love. Her ex got the tickets in a benefit auction for their daughter&#8217;s school, and part of the package is a meet-and-greet before the show. At the meet-and-greet, one of the guys says he&#8217;ll send someone to bring them backstage after the show; at the afterparty that guy, Hayes, talks to the mom, Sol\u00e8ne&#8212;and then, five days later, calls her at the gallery she co-owns, asking her out for a meal with him. After that lunch, they talk on the phone, and then they&#8217;re in New York at the same time and agree to meet up again. And after <em>that<\/em> lunch they kiss, and then they go out for drinks, and then she invites him back to her hotel room. <\/p>\n<p>Which is the start of their relationship, which, because he&#8217;s a pop star on tour, consists largely of her going to whatever city the band is in, when she can, interspersed with vacations elsewhere whenever he has a break. There are complications: it&#8217;s weird that she&#8217;s dating her daughter&#8217;s celebrity crush, and people are judgy about the 20-year age gap (and there&#8217;s definitely a double standard where people are more judgy about this kind of age gap when the woman is the older one), and Sol\u00e8ne isn&#8217;t prepared to deal with the things that come with his level of fame&#8212;paparazzi always in wait, harassment from fans, and everything else that being a mega-celebrity entails. Telling a friend about going to South America with Hayes and the band, she says this: &#8220;We can\u2019t go anywhere by ourselves. We can&#8217;t sightsee. We can&#8217;t have a casual dinner at a restaurant. We can&#8217;t go for a walk. We can&#8217;t do anything without an entourage and bodyguards, and this is his life for months out of the year.&#8221; And it&#8217;s all made more fraught by the fact that what she assumed would be a quick fling turns into something much more.<\/p>\n<p>One thing I liked a lot about this book was the way it gives us glimpses of Sol\u00e8ne&#8217;s work life: her trips, as a gallerist, to Art Basel Miami Beach and FIAC and Freize&#8212;and I like the way that Lee references actual artists\/works of art alongside fictional ones, like when  Sol\u00e8ne shows Hayes two pieces by Olafur Eliasson that she loves (<A href=\"https:\/\/olafureliasson.net\/artwork\/dew-viewer-2014\/\">Dew Viewer<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/olafureliasson.net\/artwork\/the-new-planet-2014\/\">The New Planet<\/a>). I also like all the excellent scenery that Sol\u00e8ne and Hayes get to experience together, and the descriptions we get of it&#8212;from cherry blossoms in Japan in spring to Paris in October, which Sol\u00e8ne describes like this, at the end of the FIAC fair: &#8220;The light was beautiful at this time of day. Even through the gray, everything was tinged gold and russet with the changing leaves. It dawned on me that I had not seen the late-afternoon sky in almost a week.&#8221; (Paris side note: I love that Hayes takes Sol\u00e8ne to tea at Mariage Fr\u00e8res!) Or the view of Long Island from above en route to Sag Harbor, described like this: &#8220;Sprawling mansions and fields of green, the colors vibrant and exaggerated like a David Hockney.&#8221; Also, Sol\u00e8ne&#8217;s description of her house, swoon: &#8220;It&#8217;s modern. Clean lines. Lots of midcentury furniture. It&#8217;s on the Westside, up in the hills, overlooking the ocean. There are walls of glass, and the light is always shifting. The rooms change, at dawn, at dusk. It&#8217;s like living in a watercolor.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(by Robinne Lee) I have, yet again, finished last month&#8217;s romance book club read a little late&#8212;thanks to the movie adaptation of this one, I had to wait a while for my hold to come in at the library. The plot: a divorced mom takes her daughter (who is twelve when the book opens) and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13372","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-fiction"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13372","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13372"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13372\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13387,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13372\/revisions\/13387"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13372"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13372"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13372"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}