{"id":2593,"date":"2011-03-22T17:36:39","date_gmt":"2011-03-22T21:36:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lettersandsodas.com\/books\/?p=2593"},"modified":"2011-03-22T17:36:39","modified_gmt":"2011-03-22T21:36:39","slug":"the-lovers-dictionary-by-david-levithanfarrar-straus-and-giroux-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/the-lovers-dictionary-by-david-levithanfarrar-straus-and-giroux-2011\/","title":{"rendered":"The Lover&#8217;s Dictionary by David LevithanFarrar, Straus and Giroux, 2011"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is the story of a relationship, alphabetically: a dictionary whose entries are vignettes from a couple&#8217;s life together. Sometimes an entry is a page or a paragraph or a few pages; sometimes it&#8217;s just a line, like:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><b>autonomy<\/b>, <em>n.<\/em><br \/>\n&#8220;I want my books to have their own shelves,&#8221; you said, and that&#8217;s how I knew it would be okay to live together. (23) <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>As the entries accumulate, you start to get a sense of the couple&#8217;s personalities and pasts: both are smart and bookish; he&#8217;s shy; she&#8217;s more socially at ease; he writes; she drinks. Her dad left her mom; her family life has been difficult; in the past she&#8217;s dated the wrong kind of guy. He&#8217;s stable, with a steady job and parents who were always supportive of him and are still together and happy. They live in New York City, and it&#8217;s the explicitly NYC-ish entries that I found myself loving the most: &#8220;ebullient,&#8221; about running through the rain down 6th Ave after a concert while everyone else is huddled under an awning; &#8220;halcyon,&#8221; about a perfect snow-day, going back to bed because everything&#8217;s closed; &#8220;impromptu,&#8221; about summer Friday afternoons that don&#8217;t have a plan but turn out delicious, lunch followed by museum-ing or taking the ferry or whatever city-ish things you&#8217;ve been meaning to do but haven&#8217;t had time for. <\/p>\n<p>I like, too, how the narrator captures the ups and downs of a relationship, loveliness and doubt and the everyday routines, and I like Levithan&#8217;s language, which is sometimes matter-of-fact, sometimes fanciful, sometimes luminous. I like the unexpected bits, like this great image in the entry for &#8220;paleontology&#8221;: &#8220;I sat there as you excavated your boyfriends, laid the bones out on the table for me to see. I shifted them around, tried to reassemble them, if only to see if they bore any resemblance to me&#8221; (157). I still like Levithan&#8217;s YA work more, maybe because I really love what he does with a more straightforward novelistic form, maybe because the grown-up &#8220;issues&#8221; of this book (a partner who drinks too much, the question of infidelity) felt a little over-emphasized at times, but still, I&#8217;m glad I read this. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is the story of a relationship, alphabetically: a dictionary whose entries are vignettes from a couple&#8217;s life together. Sometimes an entry is a page or a paragraph or a few pages; sometimes it&#8217;s just a line, like: autonomy, n. &#8220;I want my books to have their own shelves,&#8221; you said, and that&#8217;s how I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-fiction"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2593"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2593\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lettersandsodas.com\/books\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}